If you add me as a contact on e.g Discord, Telegram, or whatever; please give me a clue about where I might know you from, rather than just going "hi" then throwing me an invite link to a server/channel/whatever!
(Mind you, there's no guaranteed I'll join your private server/channel/group even if I do vaguely know who you are; I am about at my limit with stuff to keep track of, and my brain is melting...)
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